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Luckily, I already am really close with my eldest sister. She is just like a friend and we talk and hang a lot, sometimes smoke a fat joint. My little 12 year old sister is obviously waaaay too young for this shit tho, but I think it'll come with time.

Yesterday, I went to smoke one with my sister at a nice spot away from home, in the nature, where we could talk safely. I told her about some things I 'discovered' (actually I heard them from dad, but of course I tell her I found them myself for now). For example, mother always indoctrinated us with a lot of stories about the incest thing. One of them was that my dad would often be in the bathroom with my sister and would help her dry up as she got out of the bath and put her over his legs while sitting to do so. He would then take a very tiny camera and make pictures of her private parts, and he would then spread them online for money.

My mother told us that she was able to notice this thanks to the camera's flashes reflecting on the wall. And my sister really believes she saw those as well.

However, my dad brought the camera with him a few weeks ago, and showed me that it does not even have a flashlight at all. I always believed this story as well and I can even picture the flashes on the wall like I saw them yesterday, but it was all bullshit and lies. He also brought police reports of the search through every last part of his computer, but they never found any kind of child porn thing.

I told her this yesterday and said I read this in reports I had found hidden in a closet. I also asked her if she thinks mother's behaviour is abnormal and strange sometimes and she definately does. Then I told her to prepare for much more bullshit, as I suspected her to be a Borderliner after searching online, and more stuff she told us might be inaccurate.

Pretty much to tell at once, certainly when it comes like a thunder in clear sky. But I think she took it well, possibly because she has noticed enough of her strange behaviour to already suspect that things might be different than she believes. Anyways, I will keep going like this, slowly preparing her for the goal (having a private conversation with dad when the time is right), step by step. I am suddenly very ready and motivated to go and handle this shit. This helped. I needed people's opinions from all over places, prepping me up. Thank you all.
 

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That's quite an advantage that you're too close to your sis, broughting the thing up that way was an excellent idea. :thumbsup:
 

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Glad to hear it went well Martijn
 

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Don't lose your faith ...
 

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Listen to Ed... Its like he thinks he's a doctor or something...

No.. I was thinking I'm a friend or something..
 

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Good luck man!
Don't let this limit or set negative course for the rest of your life, it might take huge amounts of time, patience and strength to set everything on the right path but your sisters and you deserve it after all.
I really wish I could help you more in any way whatsoever.

Stay strong.
 

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He got over that hump. The Phappening the saviour. :proud:
 
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