You know you'll be picking a name in a couple of years for a baby you made. All that "
I'd rather..." talk is something teenagers would say without actually thinking it through (no offence)...but hey, to each his own
with all respect, you don't know me and my girlfriend. We already decided that in the next ten years we 100% won't have a child, and that maybe later we'll adopt one. Look at how much free time you can have without a child, how easier and more careless life it is, how much money you save, ..
'babies are the best thing ever'
is a fucking overstatement. I don't have that self-entitlement in myself that
I have to bring a baby in this world. I get sick of this what is normal and what is expected of us. I'm 25, I don't have a real job and I've been with my girl for almost 7 years, if I really wanted a baby, I'd probably already had one.
Get your baby, be proud about it, but don't walk around like it's some fucking achievement. Anybody can make a baby. It's the process in the meantime that makes it or breaks it. I at least admit that I don't don't want to use so much of my nerves, time, money and other stuff to see if I'll make a fuck up or a good child. I don't think I have it in me, especially not in this damned environment of two fucked up families. Thanks, but no thanks.
Like I said, maybe later when I adopt a little fucker and I'll have the means.
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