Ahuh.........i get what u mean, thanks for clearing it up. But in that scenario you just gave imagine 2 of the people sitting there where Nelson Mandela and Martin Luther King. Do you think they would have got mad. Im not saying they would, but the chances would be there.
Derogitory staements against ones own race have become more socially acceptable in this day and age bro. Weather its classed as racism, bigotry, misanthropy, prejiduce, reverse racism(the list goes on and on)....... its still yet to be detered. After all, the word "racism" only stemmed up in the 1930's. But where there is a grey area in society in how it should be coyed, the ideology behind it is very straightforward.
Can you be racist against your own race, most definately. Can it be termed as racism, i dont know. What i do know is that even though it could be accepted by our fellow peers and human kind as a whole in todays society, stemming from stereotypes and commercial values....it still does not make that shit right!
*rant over*