All i can think of is do you usually exchange numbers with hookers or was this an escort situation from the get go?
I don’t exchange numbers, but I don’t like going to a brothel without an appointment. Usually I look through the homepages (where the phone numbers are displayed) and choose a particular girl that I want to visit. It always sucks when she’s occupied/not there yet, because then I leave without a backup plan, so it’s always better to text her and arrange an appointment. That's basically the reason why she was able to contact me.
I am confused, do you only fuck virgins?
I’m not the hymen collector that I once used to be, not that it matters to me much, I don’t get a kick out of it. I’m still young, but I’d be pushing the boundaries of legality regardless, considering how early girls start these days. So yeah, I'd rather not lol.
This is all of a sudden the most interesting thread I’ve read on this forum in weeks.
A few questions @phonk:
1) How did the casual date go with the escort? Did you guys have sex and if so did she hit you with a bill at the end?
2) Do you just refuse to sleep with women that have children? I can understand not wanting to be a step dad but as long as she knows it’s casual I don’t see why you wouldn’t entertain it.
3) How often are you paying for pros? Is it legal where you live? Here in the US it’s pretty taboo still, most people are too nervous about getting caught and having their reputation ruined to ever try it. Asian massage parlors are more popular for that reason.
1) I actually haven’t met her yet. She texted me last Thursday, but I’ve been out everyday since then and also need to study and push some iron, so I haven’t had time to be her escort. I told her we can do something within the next 2 weeks, in all likelihood I’m going to set up this „date“ for the upcoming week. The way I see it is she's going to pay for the food and the drinks. I don't expect to be able to sleep with her for free tbh, I might get a discount, but for free... probably not.
2) Uhm, I’d say it depends. First and foremost I need to mention that I’m definitely a tits guy. I’ve been with some women who’ve had kids and judging by their bewbs (and obviously bellies as well) with some you wouldn’t even notice they have a kid, but there are others who perfectly illustrate what a devastating effect a baby can have on the female breast.
I remember visiting a hooker in her private apartment, in the late stages of the first covid lockdown (which I think lasted longer than most other European countries). I remember her taking off her bra and immediately knew I made a mistake. Her tits were deflated to a point where they looked like rags, dangling from her chest. I didn’t even dare to touch them and then she also accidentally stabbed me in the eye with one of her nipples. I knew I would never be able to get a stiffy under those circumstances, so I negotiated down the price and agreed to only get a handjob. That was quite a traumatizing experience, so I avoid moms at all costs these days, and keep in mind this chick that I met yesterday didn’t have one but three kids.
3) Pre Covid I used to go very frequently, like almost every week, to a point were I didn’t even go because I wanted to, but because it became sort of a habit. Idk man, I had quite a chunk of money available at that time. Just finished civil service, had a well paid Saturday job, inherited some money, collected cheques from the state for being a university student and also had other streams of income, some less legal than others. Basically spent it all until on hookers, drugs, nightclubs, restaurants, cigarettes and some other shit until nothing was left, which was coincidentally when Covid started. These days I live a much more humble life, I’ve been visiting hookers once every two months on average I believe, maybe even rarer than that.
To answer your other question: Yes, it’s legal here. There’s a large variety of establishments like brothels, sauna clubs, escort and studios in all possible price classes and their own benefits and drawbacks. Never had the fear of being caught tbh, I still look right and left before entering to see if someone that I know is nearby just to make sure. I live in a relatively large city by European standards so the odds of being seen by someone familiar are relatively slim by default.